I was scrolling through my Twitter feed late one night and I noticed a lot of people using the hashtags #BestSelfiesof2014 or #BestSelfies2014 while posting what they considered their "best" selfies of this year. I joined in on the fun and posted two or three selfies. It was during my search for one more selfie that I realized how much has happened this year. I then decided to stop the selfie hunt and start working on a post about this rollercoaster year we call 2014.
By the way, my sister Kelly did an AMAZEBALLS job on my hair/makeup that night. I was going for a glamourous peacock look. NAILED IT.
May
July
Me and my goddaughter's matching ensembles! Told y'all in my previous post that we would be fabulous!
Miss Karsyn enjoyed her 1st Christmas
I have been to weddings, reunions, parties, balls, ladies' nights, dinners, and unfortunately, a couple funerals over the last year. Lots of smiles, laughter and tears shed (some happy...some not). I have experienced so much over the last year that I couldnt possibly go into 2015 without reflecting on all the ups/downs and smiles/frowns of 2014.
So, prepare to travel back, way back, to the beginning of this year. And then buckle up for a ride through all twelve months of 2014.
Ready? Here we go...
January
Guess Who's Back?
I made my triumphant return to the wonderful world of bridal fashion. I modeled some amazing pieces from Gabrielle's Bridal Salon in Baton Rouge at the Old Governor's Mansion.
Paparazzi even caught a photo of me for the blogs/newspapers/entertainment news shows. p.s. The person in charge of proofreading needs to reconsider their choice of work.
When I wasnt being a top model, I spent time with family and friends. I am always grateful for those moments because I am always guaranteed to laugh uncontrollably and smile as if I dont have a care in the world.
February
ZULU!
For years I have heard people talk about the legendary Zulu Ball hosted by the Zulu Organization every year during Mardi Gras season. Well this year I was finally able to join thousands of other wonderfully dressed folks (some, not so much) celebrate Zulu 2014 thanks to my awesome stepdad, Mr P. It was a magical night and I will always be grateful to him for giving me the chance to experience that event. :-)
I was also able to see my high school best friend, Brittnee, for the first time in over seven years. I went to New Orleans to celebrate her baby shower for her second baby!....she had a beautiful baby girl not long after! :-)
March
MODEL MADNESS
I ripped the runway. Again.
April
My cousin Oliver (older by a little over a month but you would think he was older by a decade the way he treats me) got married. Seeing one of my favorite cousins tie the knot was a beautiful thing and I was so happy for him.
I was a fan of my look that day. Just saying.
We celebrated another union in the family. This time it was my older cousin Kendall's turn to walk down the aisle. It was a very warm 1000 degrees that day (ok, maybe more like 94, but it sure felt like 1000).
The heat didnt stop us from having a mini photoshoot outside though.
June
Births and Birthdays
WELCOME KARSYN! We threw a baby shower for my Auntie Dana and welcomed her baby girl Karsyn all in the same month. Little Miss Karsyn decided she wanted to come sooner than we all expected but she was a very welcomed surprise!
Miss Karsyn aka "Chocolate Drop"
I also celebrated the 30th birthday of my high school friend Josh. I had so much fun that night hanging out with old friends and making new ones.
It was a Gatsby themed event so I made a feather headpiece and had my sister do a 1920s inspired look for my hair/makeup.
My stepdad surprised me once again and took me to see one of my favorite childhood singers, Leann Rimes. I was even able to get a photo with her. She put on an amzing show and I was so grateful to have had that experience! Again, thanks Mr P!
10 Years? Already?!?
I reunited with the some of my classmates from McMain's Class of 2004 to celebrate our 10 year reunion. It took place over a course of three days: Party Night at a banquet hall, Club night at Eiffel and a class picnic. I was anxious to see the adults my classmates had become. It was a beautiful thing to see them all as professionals, parents, and husbands/wives. I had a great weekend and I look forward to the next reunion!
This space walk reminded me that I am not a kid anymore in less than 2 minutes... 
August
I finished my last class of my Masters degree program and was waiting patiently for my grades and my 28th birthday; which would both come during the same week. I planned to spend the whole weekend of the 24th celebrating: My godson's 5th birthday, a former coworker's bachelorette, and of course, my birthday and finishing my Masters program.
I got dolled up on the 24th to head to New Orleans for my goddaughter's 9th birthday party followed by my birthday dinner that night.
Moments after posting that selfie, I was hit with devastating news: My godfather's doctor asked the family to come say their goodbyes to him. Instead of celebrating, I was suddenly mourning. I made my way to the hospital, had one final conversation with my godfather and then waited around for God to call him home. During that wait, I got an email that I had passed all my classes. I had been waiting all week for that email and it chose to come then.
Not long after, my godfather took his final breath and joined our Lord in heaven. It was an unexpected loss for our family. We knew he was sick and finally out of pain, but it was still tough to swallow the reality that he would no longer be here. We celebrated his life the next weekend and sent him home the way he wouldve wanted: with St Aug's cologuards and his racing cars.
My family talked me into celebrating my birthday the next day even though I was just fine with letting the day go by without any pomp and circumstance. I met up with the usual "Birthday Celebration Crew" at Acme for great seafood and a few drinks (I needed every last one).
September
MOVING ON UP!
There was a lot of talk around the workplace about changes being made to the management team (people leaving, people moving up, etc.). I listened to the rumors and guesses but didnt pay it much mind. Well, one afternoon I was asked to join two of my bosses for a meeting. I immediately had a million thoughts run through my mind but never did I think of the real reason... A PROMOTION. They sat me down to discuss an offer for me to move up to be Visual Merchandising Supervisor. Me! Little ol' me as the person in charge of marketing and merchandising at an $11+ million/year store?
Dont have an actual pic but Im Pretty sure this was my reaction.
Look. At. God. I did the Nae Nae, Schmoney Dance, Beanie Weenie, Robot and Macarena in my head as my boss discussed her expectations of me in my new role. I thanked God so much that day. I was over the moon and felt so blessed.
I also made it to the board (only the bosses get their picture up there. PLONK! *in my NeNe Leakes voice*)
TALL LADIES ONLY!
I also took a much needed weekend trip to Houston with my good friend, Karyn. We shopped, ate, got lost (LOL), met some interesting people and enjoyed a Journey cover band concert during our visit.
Houston is one of my fave places to visit and I cant wait to go back.
October
Guess what came in the mail and brought your girl to tears? My Masters. My name was on it and everything! It was two long, stressful, exhausting, and headache-filled years of work for that huge piece of paper but it was all worth it just to see my name on there.
Me and God did that. You better check our credentials.
November
Thanksgiving was in Baton Rouge this year and I was so excited to have my family come out here to spend a few hours with us. I was a tad bit more excited about the food, if we're going to keep it all the way honest. :-) Seriously though, I really enjoyed having my family with me. Not everyone is so blessed to have a wonderful family to share holidays/special times with so for that, I am grateful.
Of course, I had a mini photoshoot...
My family surprised me by celebrating my big accomplishment after dinner. I was completely shocked and felt so loved and supported.
December
LAST MONTH OF 2014
Spent a lot of time at work this month because I am in retail and the holidays are the busiest times of the year for us in that world. However, I was still able to spend some time with my family to decorate my aunt's Christmas tree at our Tree decorating Pajama party. I think it should be a new tradition for us...
And it was our newest member's first Christmas so she was allowed to put up one of the first ornaments...
A few weeks later we celebrated Christmas in New Orleans and Gonzales. Got to see both sides of my family that day so it was a very Merry Christmas for me for that reason alone. Also, I got some really great gifts so that made it even better. :-)
RCK for Life
Unfortunately, I had to say goodbye to yet another person this year. The week before Christmas my friend Josh lost his battle to cancer. I did not take it well because I just KNEW he would fight back and win. But, God had other plans for him in Heaven. We said our final goobye to him three days before Christmas. Im still in shock and a little bit of denial. Still waiting for him to text my phone to tell me Im being a hater or to ask me for fashion advice. My first Valentine is gone? Siggy isnt here anymore? Cant be real. But, Im praying through it and asking God for strength and comfort for all those affected by the loss of such a caring, funny, and generous man.
Even though the year had some very unfortunate losses, it was overall a good year for me and my family. Those losses made me reevaluate life and relationships. I am grateful for every day that I am blessed to see and I am determined to live life to the fullest. I am learning to take chances, to forgive, to let go, and to just enjoy life. I cannot spend my days worrying and allowing fear to hold me back. So, I will say a prayer to get my days started and ask the Lord for his protection over me and my family as we make our way through life.
So here's to a prosperous, love-filled, blessings-filled, and happy 2015! Be blessed!
Love,
Coco
I absolutely love to read your blog! Please continue (even though this one made me cry)!
ReplyDeleteAwww! I really appreciate you reading, Ranlee!!
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